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4 Therefore, my brothers and sisters, you whom I love and long for, my joy and crown, stand firm in the Lord in this way, dear friends!
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Paul began his letter to the Philippians by addressing the congregation and then thanking them for the gift. In his final chapter, he does much the same, addressing the congregation and then thanking them once more.
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“This Epistle was written by Paul when he was in prison, with iron fetters about his wrists; yet there is no iron in the Epistle. It is full of light, life, love, and joy, blended with traces of sorrow, yet with a holy delight that rises above his grief.” -Charles Spurgeon, Spurgeon’s Verse Exposition of the Bible, Philippians 4.
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“Therefore…”
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Having ended chapter three by emphasizing the transformation that Christ has in store for the faithful and the doom awaiting those that fall away, Paul continues onward encouraging those whom he has affection for to continue on the right path.
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“…you whom I love and long for…”
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Given Paul’s consistent directness throughout his epistles, it is safe to assume that the language Paul is using here isn’t just flattery. He sincerely loves the people in this congregation.
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The word for “crown” here is stephanos, which is the word used for an wreath that Greeks and Romans would wear after winning athletic competitions, not a royal crown.
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Diadema is the word for a crown associated with kingship, often used when referring to Christ’s crown, not our own.
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This language choice implies that the work Paul has done with these people is a sincere achievement in his eyes. The teacher takes pride in his students, watching as they grow into Christ’s fullness.
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As we’re called to reflect God’s love to the world, it’s good to ask, do those closest to us know the immense affection we have for them? Do we show those who we love the affection of God?
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…dear friends…”
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These people do not share Paul’s ethnicity, his mother tongue, his culture, or any other number of things, and yet they are his dearest friends. For whatever they do not have in common, they have something infinitely stronger to build on: the same God, the same mission, and the same work.
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The churches we attend may have many people that share very little with us. Perhaps the person God is calling to be our dearest friend is separated from us by decades, hundreds of thousands of dollars, or politics that are vastly different, and yet, the things we have in common are stronger.
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2 I plead with Euodia and I plead with Syntyche to be of the same mind in the Lord. 3 Yes, and I ask you, my true companion, help these women since they have contended at my side in the cause of the gospel, along with Clement and the rest of my co-workers, whose names are in the book of life.
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“I plead with Euodia and I plead with Syntyche…”
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We don’t know why these women are fighting. It may be something of the utmost importance! It might be something incredibly petty that’s been blown out of proportion.
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We know that they’re influential enough in the community to be named, the conflict is noteworthy enough to speak to, and that it’s not beyond healing.
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Paul asks them to do two things: be of one mind, and work with the “true companion” that he’s named
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Note that he doesn’t say, “be of one mind with Euodia, because she’s got it right,” or “be of one mind with Syntache because I let Euodia have the last one.” God’s mind is the one that must be pursued.
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How many church conflicts would be solved without fury if our priority was God’s kingdom rather than our own?
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In Philippians 4:2, Paul pleads with two prominent church figures, Euodia and Syntyche, to be of the same mind in the Lord.
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Resolving church squabbles requires moving beyond personal preferences to ask what God is calling His Church to do.
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The abbot of Mepkin Abbey, Father Francis Kline, said that to give a gift, one must first learn not to give it. A gift that is forced on another is no gift. Many church squabbles come from someone insisting that their particular gift be given a space in the church’s life, rather than offering freely and learning not to give that gift if it isn’t accepted.
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“…my true companion, help these women…”
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Occasionally and exceedingly strangely, the theory circulates that this is a reference to Paul’s wife.
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1 Corinthians 7 explicitly shows that Paul is single at the time of writing: “It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do,” (1 Cor. 7:8).
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Not only does he write this, but he goes on to say, “An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord’s affairs—how he can please the Lord. But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world—how he can please his wife,” (1 Cor. 7:32-35).
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Not only does Paul explicitly talk about his preference for singleness, but there’s not any reliable witness that claims Paul has a wife. This has been dismissed repeatedly by theologians of every age.
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A simpler (and infinitely more likely) reading is that this is simply a wise Christian that Paul trusts to address this matter so that these two women can resolve their differences in an appropriate manner.
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This person is also brave enough to step between two feuding people. A coward chooses the side of whoever they are closest to, regardless of the facts of an argument, but a brave person steps in to make peace, not further war.
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“I maintain that it is not Paul’s wife that is designated by this appellation. Those who maintain this, quote Clement and Ignatius as their authorities. If they quoted correctly, I would not certainly despise men of such eminence. But as writings are brought forward from Eusebius which are spurious, and were contrived by ignorant monks they are not deserving of much credit among readers of sound judgment.” -Calvin, Calvin’s Commentary, Phil. 4 213-216.
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“…whose names are in the book of life.”
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The book of Life is mentioned repeatedly in Revelation to refer to those who will go on and live in paradise with God forever (Rev. 3:5, Rev. 20:12-15, Rev. 21:27).
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What Paul has seen among the people in this church assures him that there are clearly people who are going on to salvation.
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“…along with Clement…”
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The early church consistently identified this particular Clement as Clement of Rome, the fourth bishop of Rome that is famed for 1 Clement, a letter to the church at Corinth urging them to avoid factionalism.
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It would certainly be dramatically appropriate for the man mentioned just after Euodia and Syntache to go on to solve a feud within a church in his later years
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It’s worth mentioning that the link between Clement of Philippi and Clement of Rome isn’t a guaranteed fact
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Clement was a common Roman name
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The earliest writers agree that Clement of Rome knew the apostles, but it’s only in around the 4th century that people explicitly say that he learned from them while serving in Philippi.
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Ultimately, it’s a possibility, but also not a guarantee.
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4 Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! 5 Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. 6 Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7 And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
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“Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice.”
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After Philippians 3:1, these make up the second and third times that Paul urges his readers to rejoice.
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“What a gracious God we serve, who makes delight to be a duty, and who commands us to rejoice! Should we not at once be obedient to such a command as this?” -Spurgeon, Sermon 2405.
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Spurgeon points out that the word that is rendered in our translation is especially appropriate. It originates (re meaning “again”, and joir meaning “enjoy”). For a Chrisitan to really rejoice, it isn’t enough to depend on a mood. We need to make a deliberate, conscious choice to enjoy God’s gifts again and again and again.
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We are not easily given to rejoicing. Greed, anxiety, and fear are natural for sinful beings in the world that we inhabit. We need to consciously allow the Holy Spirit to transform our mental patterns.
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Romans 12:2: “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will”
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“[I]f you see them living in luxury, why are you in affliction? Already the judgment is near; shortly will they give account of their actions. Are ye in affliction, and they in luxury? But these things shall shortly receive their end.” -Chrysostom, Homily 14 on Philippians
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“The Lord is near.”
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“Then when he says, the Lord is at hand, he touches on the cause of joy. For a man rejoices when his friend is near. But the Lord is near with the presence of his majesty: he is not far from each one of us (Acts 17:27).” -Thomas Aquinas, Commentary on Philippians, C. 4, L. 1. 154.
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“Let your gentleness be evident…”
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Someone who is rejoicing is very often gentle. If things don’t go their way, they are flexible. If they face hardships, they are little more than a bump in the road. Rejoicing breeds resilience.
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A fearful person is rarely gentle. A frustrated person, doubly so. People who are afraid cling very closely to what they have. Perhaps it is the only joy they feel they can find.
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“…by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God…”
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To help us be gentle, the apostle recommends prayer. We cannot control our circumstance, but God certainly can.
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Some ponder how this could be effective. If God knows what we want, why doesn’t he just give it to us? Why prayer?
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An all-powerful God could also fill our bellies with food without needing to get off the couch to eat, but few people complain about this. We want to go and eat. It seems obvious that God wants us to eat. Putting miracle food in our bellies seems absurd.
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An all-knowing God also knows all of our prayers, but he wants to hear them from us. He values our participation in this world. He wants to work with us, not in spite of us.
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“And so He wills that our prayers should not simply be requests, but thanksgivings too for what we have. For how should he ask for future things, who is not thankful for the past?” -Chrysostom, Homily 14 on Philippians.”
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”‘Which of you, if your son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? 11 If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!” Matt. 7:9-11
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“…the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts…”
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When the Bible refers to the heart, it is not a reference to the seat of emotion alone, but to the core of our lives that drives who we are. Every thought, deed, and action is a result of the status of our heart.
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“Inasmuch as the heart is the most important part of man for out of it are the issues of life it would be natural to expect that Satan, when he intended to do mischief to manhood, would be sure to make his strongest and most perpetual attacks upon the heart.” -Spurgeon, Sermon 180.
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What is peace of God? A peace given to us when our hearts are completely given towards God. Disordered affections bring immense turmoil, but as we learn to order our loves rightly, we can trust that God will carry us where we need to go.
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“Peace, according to Augustine, is the tranquility of order: for the disturbance of order is the destruction of peace.” -Thomas Aquinas, Commentary on Philippians, C. 4, L. 1.159
- “Things which are not in their intended position are restless. Once they are in their ordered position, they are at rest. My weight is my love. Wherever I am carried,my love is carrying me. By your gift we are set on fire and carried upwards: we grow red hot and ascend. We climb ‘the ascents in our heart’ (Ps. 83: 6), and sing ‘the song of steps’ (Ps. 119: 1).” -Augustine, Confessions, Ch 13
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8 Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. 9 Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.
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Paul captures the essence of beauty in his words here. These lofty heights of poetry speak for themselves more than any commentator could, and yet one can’t help but try to scratch the surface of the depths Paul has plumbed.
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The Christian life is not merely a matter of the emotions. It involves the whole self, especially the mind. As Paul writes in Romans 12:2, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”
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When we give something our attention, it shapes us.
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Anxiety grabs hold when we fixate and ruminate on the ugliness in our lives.
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When we give our attention to things that reflect God’s glory, we can begin to do the same.
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Full Transcript
We continue on in the book of Philippians, having reached the final chapter where Paul is wrapping things up and putting a bow on them. We just finished chapter three, where Paul talked about what it is to be a Christian. It is not about doing good things, because you cannot do enough good things to earn your way to salvation; it doesn’t work that way. Jesus is good, so count on Him rather than your own abilities. At the same time, while you cannot earn your way to salvation, it is also much more than just saying, “I like Jesus, and I am just going to go back to the way I regularly live.” No, it is more than that too. Ultimately, Jesus wants to transform us, and when we give our lives to Him, the Holy Spirit is at work in us, recovering us, making us holy, and making us what we were always meant to be. That is the Christian life: being what we were always meant to be through the power of Jesus.
Here we continue on in chapter four. Paul is going to reference a few people right there at that church as he wraps things up. He is going to address the congregation at large, address three particular people that he has requests for, and finally talk about some people in that congregation who are great examples.
Therefore, my brothers and sisters, you whom I love and long for, my joy and my crown, stand firm in the Lord in this way, dear friends.
Paul does not just say, “Hey, people of the church at Philippi.” No, these are his friends whom he loves and longs for. These people are his joy and his crown, his brothers and sisters. Now, if a lot of people talked like this, you might think they were laying it on pretty thick and wonder what they wanted. But Paul is someone who tends to call it like it is. We have seen in his other epistles the way he is willing to tell people exactly where they stand, so when we see this level of affection from him, it is safe to say it is merited. He genuinely loves these people and wants them to know they are loved, seeing the way God is at work in them and wanting to call attention to that.
Do our friends know how much we appreciate them? Do they know how good they are? Now, this is not a call to make sure your interactions with friends are constantly mushy, as you probably have relationships where that is simply not the dynamic. Most of the time, interactions are straightforward—just saying hello and asking what to do. But you can appreciate someone without it being overly mushy. Just taking the time to say, “You’re really good at that,” or thanking someone for making time when they are busy, makes a difference. Regardless, making sure that people know you care about them and appreciate them matters. If we say we want to be people who reflect Christ’s love, how much more should the people we care about most know they are loved? This is especially important and meaningful for Christian friends, because we share the most important things: the same God, the same goal, and the same mission. We can build one another up in ways nobody else can by calling attention to the fact that we see God at work in them and see how they are living out God’s calling in their life.
Christian friendships are often different from other relationships in the world, which are usually built on obvious commonalities like being the same age, in the same stage of life, or having the same hobbies. The Christian friends you make might have none of those things. Sometimes you show up at a church and make friends who are nothing like what you would expect. When I was 20 or 21 on my early Christian journey, my pastor asked me to join a men’s group where the next youngest person was in their late 40s and the oldest were in their mid 60s. I looked around and wondered how it was going to work out because obviously those guys had things in common that I didn’t. But after spending time together, I recognized a level of care and intimacy we could share that wasn’t based on hobbies or family stages—truth be told, I was closer to their kids’ age than theirs. Nonetheless, we could talk about what we were wrestling with, what we hoped for, and who we wanted to be because we shared the most important stuff. Those relationships weren’t what I expected, but they were good. Keep an open mind when it comes to who God might use in your life to help build you up; they might not look like what you expect, but that can still be very good.
After addressing the congregation, Paul has requests for a few people in particular:
I plead with Euodia and I plead with Syntyche to be of the same mind in the Lord.
He is obviously pleading for this because they are not of the same mind; they are fighting about something. What are they fighting about? We don’t know—it could be something huge, or it could be something tiny and petty. We do know these are women who are prominent figures in their church, and whatever squabble they are having is a big enough deal that Paul feels it is helpful to acknowledge and address it.
To help them come together in spite of division, Paul has two requests. First, he asks them to be of one mind—not saying they need to be of Syntyche’s mind or Euodia’s mind, but of God’s mind. This is about more than personal preferences. How many church squabbles would be solved infinitely more gracefully if we all set aside our preferences and asked a bigger question: What is God calling us to do? If a squabble is just about two people’s preferences, it comes down to what each person wants, leading to frustration. But if we make it broader and acknowledge that God is leading us in a direction together, even if it is not what we wanted, there is opportunity for unexpected good.
Church conflict is especially hard because people get passionate, excited, and feel like God has put something on their hearts that has to happen a certain way because it is good. A monk named Francis Kline offered some really good advice around this, saying, “You can’t really offer a gift until you’ve gained the ability not to offer it. A gift is supposed to be something freely given, offered up to someone, not a demand, not an expectation.” If we come in demanding our way because we think it’s a gift from God, maybe that’s not the right attitude. Sometimes when things don’t unfold the way we hope in a church community, we need to learn not to give a specific gift for now, so that in the future we have the ability to give it with all due grace and care.
While we don’t know the specifics about Euodia and Syntyche, Paul first asks them to approach the situation the way God would, and then asks a third person to come and help them:
Yes, and I ask you, my true companion, help these women since they have contended at my side in the cause of the gospel.
Who is Paul’s true companion? Some people have suggested Paul has a wife at Philippi whom he is addressing, but that is not a reasonable interpretation. Paul has not been in Philippi in ages while he is in Rome, and if that were his wife, writing to ask her for a favor would not go well for him when she got a hold of him! Furthermore, 1 Corinthians 7:8 states that Paul was unmarried, a state he viewed positively because it gave him more time and a different perspective to serve God. Paul does not have a secret wife at Philippi; this is presumably a mature Christian whom Paul has spent time with and trusts to step into this conflict and help.
This person must be bold enough to step into conflict without taking sides. It is easy to look at conflicting parties and side with whoever you have a closer relationship with, but that is cowardly. Being brave enough to step into conflict and tell even a close friend that things are not where they need to be and that everyone needs to calm down and talk takes guts. This person is being asked to help bring them together and find what God is calling them to in this season.
Paul then moves on to talk about some people in that congregation who are especially noteworthy, starting with coworkers whose names are in the book of life. Paul has seen enough evidence of God at work in their lives to be comfortable saying their names are in the book of life, which relates to the final judgment. Paul is saying he has seen real evidence of salvation among these people.
Not only that, he names someone specific: Clement. The early church seemed pretty confident that this Clement was the fourth bishop of Rome, who was said to have learned personally from the apostles and famously wrote a letter to the church at Corinth dealing with factions and how to come together. How dramatically appropriate that someone raised in the midst of church factionalism went on to address factionalism in his own ministry! While some historical connection between the Clement in Philippians and the bishop of Rome is somewhat uncertain—since the name Clement was fairly common—it is a reasonable case to be made that we actually know this person and can see the good work he went on to do.
As Paul wraps things up, he offers encouragement:
Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice.
Paul told the people to rejoice at the beginning of chapter three, and now he tells them a second and third time. The word “rejoice” comes from the old French re- (meaning do it again) and joy (meaning enjoy)—enjoy it again, enjoy God again, enjoy life again, enjoy these good things again. That takes a deliberate, conscious choice. For some people, that is harder than others; some have naturally sunny dispositions, while others tend to be more pessimistic or critical. But Paul does not present rejoicing as mere personal advice; it is a command. Romans 12:2 says, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” The Christian journey involves our minds and how we approach the world, transforming our thinking so that rather than focusing on what is ugly and wrong, we focus on good things, great things, and the gifts God gives us.
Paul elaborates on this in verse five:
Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
A person who is rejoicing is considerably more likely to be gentle. Someone who is angry, sad, upset, or barely getting through their days is often clinging desperately to the good things they have, flying off the handle easily if something goes wrong because they needed that specific outcome. But someone who is rejoicing is more resilient; even when things don’t go their way, they are able to pivot and still find good stuff.
Anxious people often allow their minds to get stuck on the worst things, ruminating on what went wrong or what might go wrong, running it on repeat in their heads. While it feels like trying to fix the problem, it usually just makes life worse. But we are told: “Do not be anxious about anything. The Lord is near.” God is with you, and you don’t have to worry that everything will fall apart if you don’t obsess over it. There is an all-knowing, all-powerful God with you, and you can bring your concerns to Him.
Some might ask, “What’s the point of praying if God is all-knowing? If it needs to be done, He’ll do it anyway.” But that logic implies human action is entirely unnecessary—as if someone sitting on a couch who is hungry would refuse to get up, figuring God will put a sandwich straight into their stomach if He wants them to live. Of course not! God can sustain someone indefinitely, but He made us as beings in this world to participate in what is going on, to live good lives, and to take care of ourselves and the people we love. Prayer is an extension of that; God wants us to participate in His work, tell Him our concerns, and receive His response.
As Jesus points out in Matthew chapter seven, if flawed human parents wouldn’t give their kids something bad when asking for something good, how much more does our heavenly Father seek our good when we ask Him for help? We can trust God by taking our bad stuff to Him, and we should also bring our joys and praises to Him, thanking Him for the good things He has given us. When you do this, a peace settles in your heart—not just the fragile peace of someone with money in the bank and a smooth life who worries about tomorrow, but the peace that comes from knowing God is with you and will take care of you today, tomorrow, and forever.
One of the most beautiful verses in Scripture follows:
Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.
We are shaped by what we think about and what we allow our minds to dwell on. If we focus on past traumas, discouraging times, and fears, that shapes us. But if we focus on things that are good, beautiful, and righteous, that shapes us too. Everything on this earth was put here to reflect the glory of God, and anything good, true, and delightful was made by God to reflect His goodness and mercy, so we should think about those things and rejoice.
All of this rejoicing, focusing on the good, and refusing to worry is not just a theory—it is a way to live. Paul ends this section in verse nine:
Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me, put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.
Don’t just think about this or hear these words and move on; put them into practice. Choose a time every day for the next seven days to set aside anxieties and think about what is good, noble, and pure for sixty seconds, rejoicing in those things. We see how this changed Paul, who had every reason to complain while imprisoned by Romans, watched by guards around the clock, and unable to take care of daily needs without help. Yet he rejoiced, found beautiful things to think on, and was thankful for reaching people in new ways and for the friends who helped him. If he could be thankful under those circumstances, we can be thankful in ours. Spend that one minute every day this year thinking about things that are good, rejoicing, and being shaped in the image of God. Amen.