
This entry is part of a series called “The Gospel in a Postmodern World.” Learn more about the series here.
Preached on November 27, 2022
Scriptures: Genesis 32:22-32, 1 Thess. 5:12-24
Hedonism has a pretty bad reputation. Just hearing the word brings certain debaucherous ideas to mind. Hedonism is eating the most expensive, decadent chocolate cake you can find. It’s wild partying with every illicit substance imaginable. It’s unbridled sensuality. Hedonism is wild living without any thought of future consequence. And that’s more or less what the word actually means anymore. Someone that calls you a hedonist isn’t trying to give you a compliment. But what did it mean? Because it used to mean something more. It used to be a legitimate school of philosophy, and its teachings are more compelling than you’d probably think.
Let’s look at what may be the most famous hedonist philosopher: an ancient Greek man by the name of Epicurus. Judging from our modern associations, you’d think Epicurus was some kind of wild party boy. His life must have had a lot of sex, drugs, and the ancient equivalent of rock-and-roll. Not so, actually. Epicurus was a really decent guy. His life wasn’t customized by wild excess. It was simple. He loved good friends, rural living, basic cooking, and that was about it. He was a simple man with a simple philosophy: life is hard because we’re all too busy being afraid of losing what we have. The solution? Enjoy the little things. Spend your time doing what actually matters and avoid wild excess, because if you get used to fancy things, you’ll spend your whole life being afraid that you’ll lose them. Avoid the fear of loss, seek the simple pleasures, and you’ll be happy.
You’ll notice that there’s not a lot of room for God in that equation. If simple pleasures are the route to happiness, who needs God? To be fair to Epicurus, he actually does include God in his writings. He doesn’t say a lot about him, but he includes him. You can see right here in your bulletin a quote I pulled from Epicirus’s writings:
“First believe that God is a living being immortal and happy, according to the notion of a god indicated by the common sense of humankind; and so of him anything that is at agrees not with about him whatever may uphold both his happiness and his immortality.”
Epicurus, Letter to Menoeceus
What two words does he use to describe God? Immortal and happy. God is happy! Don’t worry about him! He’s up there, doing his thing. At the end of the day, he’s a happy guy that wants you to be happy too.
Can you imagine if Epicirus was around today? Think about a message like that: God wants YOU to be happy. I think he’d sell quite a few books. Maybe get an appearance on Oprah. He’d be a big deal!
But we have to ask ourselves, why didn’t his philosophy endure through the ages? If the message resonates today, but most of us have never heard of this guy and his school of philosophy, what banished him to obscurity? Well, Christianity. Some of the people that denounced Epicirus’s teachings were Christian. Augustine thrashed it in his writings. Justin Martyr and Tatian did the same long before him. Christians generally saw Epicureans as the worst available school of philosophy. And why?
Because the happiness that Epicurus was selling wasn’t true happiness.
True happiness isn’t about managing to lower your expectations to the point that they’re no longer relevant. It’s not about maximizing your pleasure. It’s not about avoiding fear. It’s not about the pursuit of dopamine.
Happiness, true happiness,the kind that lasts longer than an afternoon, isn’t about pleasure. It’s about fulfillment. Being what we’re supposed to be! Doing what we’re supposed to do! And that’s why life isn’t just one long pleasure trip. There are other emotions besides pleasure-based happiness. There’s sadness, fear, obsession and grief. There’s panic, courage, annoyance and joy. There are a million different emotions under the sun! And all of them are on the table while we’re pursuing fulfillment. And all of them are good. All of them are important.
Last week, we spoke of how our engagements with history have grown far too cynical. The inclination to view the world through the lens of power has made the whole of history little more than wolves and sheep, tyrants and the oppressed. That’s too shallow. Christianity says that there’s more to the world around us than the selfish pursuit of power. There’s love. We Chirstians know that the world is driven by more than selfishness. God himself is love, and he’s in this world at work.
If last week was about saying that the readings of the world around us have grown too shallow, this week is affirming that our readings of ourselves have suffered the same fate. We have also become far too shallow in our own eyes. Mind you, the readings of history focused on what was ugly, whereas the readings of our lives tend to focus on what’s good. We focus on pleasure. We’d like more money. We’d like more stuff. We’d like fewer jerks in the spaces around us and more friends. When God gives us anything other than pleasure, it tends to be frustrating. Why God? What did I do to you? We define success within our lives by the acquisition of pleasure. We long for more dopamine. Most of us have become functional hedonists. But that does a great disservice to what life really is. When we go through hard things, that’s when we tend to grow the most. God isn’t trying to make us happy. God is trying to make us holy.
Our first Scripture reading today, Genesis 32:22-32, is a famous one that points to this exactly: Jacob wrestling with God. And what a weird story it is! This is the Old Testament at its finest! Let’s look at this a little:
That night Jacob got up and took his two wives, his two female servants and his eleven sons and crossed the ford of the Jabbok. After he had sent them across the stream, he sent over all his possessions.
First off, why is any of this happening? Jacob is going to see his brother Essau. When he was a kid, he stole Essau’s blessing and ran away. All these years later, things aren’t going so well. He has to go back to Esau for help, and he has no idea how Esau is going to respond. Is he going to welcome him? Begrudgingly allow him to stay? Chase him off? Kill him? Here, he’s crossing a river. This is the point of no return. If Esau decides to attack Jacob and his people, they can’t just retreat if there’s a river at his back. But God told Jacob to go to Esau. So this is where he has to make that choice. Does he really trust God? This is the last stop. There’s no turning back after the River Jabbok. And he crosses it.
So Jacob was left alone, and a man wrestled with him till daybreak.
Notice that Jacob doesn’t start to wrestle with God. He’s not out there picking a fight. The Bible says that God picked a fight with Jacob. What did God want from him? Everything. Jacob is a character that’s constantly scheming. He’s manipulative. He’s clever. He usually plans on figuring things out for himself, rather than waiting around for God. And how has that gone for him historically? Not great. He’s won a few, but he’s lost more. This is a man that has to go back to the brother he cheated to beg for help, for crying out loud, he’s not in a good place. His self-reliance has gotten him nowhere. And now? Now comes God. And God wants the last shred of faithfulness that Jacob has been holding back on.
A really common reading of this passage is to say that this figure is a pre-incarnation of Jesus. Some people say that anytime we see God in a human form, that’s Jesus. I’m not a hundred percent on that one, but I think it’s really interesting at minimum. How often have we wrestled with Jesus? How often have we held out because we feel we can figure things out on our own? Until Jesus hunts us down and wrestles that last bit of pride out of us.
When the man saw that he could not overpower him, he touched the socket of Jacob’s hip so that his hip was wrenched as he wrestled with the man.
Things look pretty evenly matched there for a while. Both men are struggling. Jacob is doing well. The mystery man is doing well (remember, we don’t know it’s God just yet). Nobody can quite get the edge over the other. And then? Out of nowhere, boom! God touches Jacob’s hip and changes everything. The fight isn’t as even as it looked. God was always in control. With one little touch, he could have won at any point. A good reminder that no matter how things look, God is in control. It might look like he’s evenly matched, but it’s all just a show. God wins. God always wins.
Then the man said, “Let me go, for it is daybreak.”
At this point, it’s over. Jacob can’t win with his wounded leg. The man basically says, “Hey, move on. It’s over.” But Jacob doesn’t move on. He may be defeated, but he’s not letting go.
But Jacob replied, “I will not let you go unless you bless me.”
The clever Jacob. The man who always relied on his abilities. His cleverness. Has been humbled. He’s held on for what? God’s blessing. He’s now someone that seeks only to be blessed by God. This is a turning point for him. He’s no longer good ‘ol crafty Jacob. He’s someone new.
The man asked him, “What is your name?”
“Jacob,” he answered.
Then the man said, “Your name will no longer be Jacob, but Israel,[a] because you have struggled with God and with humans and have overcome.”
Jacob said, “Please tell me your name.”
But he replied, “Why do you ask my name?” Then he blessed him there.
So Jacob called the place Peniel, saying, “It is because I saw God face to face, and yet my life was spared.”
The sun rose above him as he passed Peniel, and he was limping because of his hip. Therefore to this day the Israelites do not eat the tendon attached to the socket of the hip, because the socket of Jacob’s hip was touched near the tendon.
Some people like to say this whole fight was metaphorical; just something representative of the inner drama that’s going on in Jacob’s mind during this challenging period. I don’t think it is. Because during the fight, God messes up Jacob’s leg. And at the end of the fight, Jacob walks with a limp from then on. It’s almost like a movie: there’s a really weird sequence where something absurd happens and after it ends, the main character looks back on it and thinks, “I must have been dreaming. There’s no WAY that actually happened!” But then they realize that they have a bruise or a scratch of something in their pocket from the time in question and they realize that maybe… maybe it wasn’t a dream. Maybe something bizarre just happened.
Jacob wrestles God. And he’s never the same after that. Physically. Mentally. Spiritually. It was a painful experience. He bears the scars from that battle for the rest of his life. But somehow, a Jacob that has experienced frustration, fear, desperation, and injury is better than the Jacob that we knew. Through suffering, Jacob grows. And hasn’t that happened to you?
Our second Scripture, 1 Thess. 5:12-24, is a little more direct. Paul writes:
Now we ask you, brothers and sisters, to acknowledge those who work hard among you, who care for you in the Lord and who admonish you. Hold them in the highest regard in love because of their work. Live in peace with each other.
Here, he’s talking about Church leadership. Not just pastors, but others in your community that are leaders. Leadership team members. Choir directors. Food pantry operators. All kinds of leadership within the church. And how does he describe them? People that work hard. People that care for others when times are hard. People that scold others when the behavior within the community becomes inappropriate. None of that is fun. Who wants to work hard, deal with weird situations, and scold people that are out of line? Nobody. That’s the worst! But Paul says, those people that are putting up with all that nonsense? Give them extra respect. They’re going through all that for you. The true leader is a servant that suffers on the behalf of others. THAT’S what makes them worthy of note. Not because they have a fancy title or a nice degree or whatever other nonsense we come up with.
And now, Paul turns to everyone else and says:
And we urge you, brothers and sisters, warn those who are idle and disruptive, encourage the disheartened, help the weak, be patient with everyone. Make sure that nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always strive to do what is good for each other and for everyone else.
In other words, be like your leadership is supposed to be! Work hard. Don’t turn a blind eye when someone is being disruptive. Take care of people that need help. The work that leadership does isn’t just for leaders. They may be the one that takes on a greater share institutionally, but that’s EVERYONE’S responsibility. Everyone has a responsibility to do the tough stuff! And he ends with the worst part: Don’t pay back evil for evil. When someone does wrong, it’s natural to want to get them back. It’s not just natural, it’s fair! It’s reasonable! But we’re not supposed to do that. Be better than fair. Be merciful. Take the high road.
Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.
GIVE THANKS IN ALL CIRCUMSTANCES. It’s easy to give thanks on Thanksgiving. Most of us have a nice meal in front of us. A bunch of family around us. Who couldn’t be thankful on a day like that? But when our thanks is just driven by that, it’s just pleasure-based happiness. It’s easy. Anyone can get that. It’s meaningless. It’s here today and gone tomorrow. We don’t just give thanks on turkey day. We give thanks on EVERY day. The good ones. The bad ones. The boring ones! And we pray. We pray continually in our hearts. That’s a verse that’s so deep that I can’t even scratch the surface of it today, so I’ll just leave it at that and come back at some point in the future. And we rejoice.
It doesn’t say that you have to rejoice and give thanks for the bad things that happen. That would be absurd, wouldn’t it? “God, thank you for this broken leg.” A broken leg is a bad thing. We don’t have to thank God for the bad things. But even in those moments defined by bad things, God is at work, making us better. Making us shine brighter. God’s will for us in Christ is to accept these moments, all the while praising God with joy and thanksgiving. What a gift. Now we move on to a passage with a theme very similar to last week:
Do not quench the Spirit. Do not treat prophecies with contempt but test them all; hold on to what is good, reject every kind of evil.
Again, not every religious idea is a good one. Don’t hear something from your leadership and just assume it’s good because they’re good. Don’t endure a tough situation and internalize some weird meaning because it feels like God wants that. Just as with last week, we test the spirits. We have to check to see that what we get actually lines up with what God has told us in Scripture. Because we can develop wrong, even when we’re doing everything right. We have to be discerning on this journey of growth.
May God himself, the God of peace, sanctify you through and through. May your whole spirit, soul and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. The one who calls you is faithful, and he will do it.
There’s our goal. That’s true happiness right there. Sanctification. That’s God making us holy. That’s fulfillment. All of the pain we endure. The hard work we get through The insults we bear. It’s God at work, sanctifying us. God doesn’t want to make us happy. He wants so much more than that. He wants to make us holy. That’s why any turn to epicureanism, popular though it may be, is ultimately a lost cause. We’re more than dopamine centers. We’re beings capable of a full range of emotions, even negative ones. And enduring suffering isn’t pointless. Epicurus was wrong. The wholeness of our lives can’t be found in avoiding pain and collecting pleasures, because God has a way of helping us grow through suffering. Who knew that a God who died on a cross might end up expecting his followers to suffer now and again? So what will we do? Will we rely on ourselves? Will we back away from the Jabboks of our lives, avoiding any painful wrestling in the process? Or will we cling and beg for a blessing?



